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Birth is not a niche interest; it is everyone’s first story

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Birth Out Loud

A Young Voices guest post by Hannah Cressy

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I was the “birth girl” in college– which actually, at Wesleyan, wasn’t so strange.  Most college students don’t have their birth plans at the ready or procrastinate by researching rebozos and lactation classes, but I’ve been amazed at how interested my peers often become when I discuss birth.  Birth is one topic for which everyone has a story; we all come into this world in different circumstances, some fast and some slow, some alone and some with many siblings.  I was recently cooking dinner with five male friends, and we began talking about a birth that I recently attended as a doula.  Two hours later, these college guys were still asking me questions, telling their own birth stories or those of their siblings, and joining me in lamenting the injustices of America’s health care system.  Birth is not a niche interest; it is everyone’s first story.

I am drawn to birth because of its universality, its emotional weight, and its capacity to reveal women’s own power to themselves and to their families. I knew from age seven that I would somehow be involved with what I perceived as the magical and secretive process of pregnancy; I stayed with a neighbor after school every day who, during the stretch of time I was regularly present in their home, had several babies.  I watched her grow and change, practice babywearing, attend birth classes–but I wasn’t allowed to know the whole story of pregnancy, which of course, starts and ends with a naked woman.  I suppose I initially wanted to know everything about birth because birth was hidden from me.  So, from then on, I secretly learned as much as I could about birth, and told my parents when I was eleven years old that I would be a pediatrician.

I finally decided, at age 18, that I would be a midwife, and have since spent four years at Wesleyan preparing for this dream.  I became a birth doula and volunteered at San Francisco General Hospital for a summer, where I attended my first twelve births.  Finally working in the “birth world”, particularly with the midwives of that hospital, felt like home.  I needed to share this feeling with my peers at Wesleyan, but wondered if anyone was interested.  Along with some classmates, I helped organize a lecture and discussion facilitated by Maureen Whitman of Birth Philosophy and Maire MacLean of New Family Nurture, regarding birth and breastfeeding in the context of the current culture, media and medical models. The event was well attended, attracting a group of over 40 students.

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Realizing that the students at Wesleyan would be interested in a more in-depth exploration of these topics, I then applied to teach a credited Wesleyan class on the politics of birth and reproductive justice in America. I had to turn down dozens of people trying to join the seminar!  This is something that so many young people care about, once we’re exposed to the debates surrounding birth in America.  Just as I’d felt in second grade, I realized that this topic can sometimes remain silenced in the college atmosphere, assumed as something that we’re “too young to worry about”.  Yet, I do worry about birth because it will affect most of my friends, and affects the majority of women and families.  The seminar went amazingly well, and another student is hoping to teach it again in the coming school year.  This past year, I became an abortion doula as well as a postpartum doula and am currently starting my own postpartum doula business practice in Burlington, Vermont (see doulahannah.com).  I will soon be applying to graduate school to become a Certified Nurse Midwife (CNM).  I hope to continue to find ways to help women realize their own power by being in control of their reproductive decisions, and ways to make birth a conversation topic for everyone!

Hannah is a recent graduate of Wesleyan University, where she mixed Feminist/Gender/Sexuality studies, biology, and anthropology to learn about social justice and healing through many lenses.  She currently works as a postpartum doula and counselor in Burlington, Vermont, and plans to become a Certified Nurse Midwife.  

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Summer Meetup #3 Recap

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The third and final gathering of the Summer Series for the Birth Philosophy Meetup Group was chock full of really interesting info and conversation!  Here is a brief report of what we covered on July 28th over at the Life Alive Café in Salem, MA.

Jennifer, a doula, shared information about a group she and Kira of  North Shore Birth and Beyond are hosting that allow people to process their birth if they have any lingering feelings of disappointment, anger or trauma. What a great offering. This type of circle can  be really healing and important for those who might need it. The next gathering of this group is Thursday, August 29th in Salem. Click here for more details.

Also, this duo is holding a Meet the Doulas event at Hip Baby Gear in Marblehead this Saturday, August 3rd. That is tomorrow! Get more info here.

Kira is also offering a Fertility Awarness Meetup for anyone in the area to get together and discuss fertility awareness method for birth control, or for achieving pregnancy. This is incredibly valuable information to have for women at any stage of their life so hats off to Kira for offering this peer to peer sharing group. We discussed how we wish that more younger women could have access to information about these type of options for managing fertility, particularly for those who might like to avoid hormonal birth control for various reasons.

And, I have to say, I really also love that Kira also has her own lending library of books on midwifery, parenting, women’s studies, pregnancy, fertility, birth, breastfeeding etc.  I love this!  There are so many interesting threads and topics to explore in regard to these topics. Digging deeper into some of the great books out there is how all of us really get to know more about some of these areas. A movie screening of A Birth Story (August 8th @ 7PM) and a breastfeeding support group at Hip Baby Gear in Marblehead are also events that Kira is hosting in the near future so check out her site for more info on these events or if you want to track her down to borrow a book.

Kathleen of  Side by Side Doulas gave us an overview of the many services that she and her partners offer.  They include Hypnobirthing, Wavework, Belly Casting and Mapping, Lactation Support, C-Section Prep and Doula Mentoring in addition to Birth and Postpartum Doula services.  Kathleen also works for WIC. Check out her website here.

Nicole and Kathy drove up from the South Shore with small people in tow, which was great!  We were so glad that they made the trek. Kathy is a nurse and Nicole is a doula.  We talked about the challenges of pursuing our careers as birth workers and balancing that with family and mothering and all the rest. Always a great topic.

Group members Chris, a newer doula, and Maire a local IBCLC in private practice and Nursing Mother’s Counselor were also in attendance.  Below is a picture of the group as we were occupying the back seating area enjoying our tasty food and conversation.  If you are in the area, do join us for the next gathering. Thanks to everyone for coming out and sharing about the important work you are doing. I will post the dates for the Fall Meetup Series as soon as they are set.

In the meantime, if you want to keep discussing and sharing the latest news and happenings in the world of birth, sign in to the Birth Philosophy Facebook page.  Or if you like to read articles at a faster pace, definitely follow me on Twitter.

Enjoy the great month of August.  I’ll be hitting the beach as much as I can while the getting is good.

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